This is a guest post by Mars, a dating coach. He’s well known for being a top notch PUA in Toronto.
Choosing the right partner can be tricky sometimes. People tend to rely more on the emotional aspect of a relationship and less on the more practical things that affect romantic relationships. Ideally, the longer you keep a relationship the more rewarding it becomes. This is why choosing the right person from the very beginning is important.
- Live a balanced life – relationships are not all about romance and magic. The best way to find the right person is to keep everything in perspective. Do not be centered on “the search” but live your life well. Excel in your career, have fun, do the things that you love the most. This will often lead you to the right person in the right time.
- Have enough time for yourself – even if the person you are dating is turning out to be Mr. Right, do not let this stop you from spending a healthy amount of time with friends and family. This will allow you to keep a well rounded life, which also makes you more ideal to Mr. Right, especially if that person turns out to be your future life partner.
- Be true to yourself and others – do not rely solely on first impressions instead learn to know more about a person with fruitful, healthy conversations. It often surprises people that their impressions on the first meeting were actually way off. Lastly be honest with the person you are getting to know better in dates. Admit your flaws, be who you are and do not fall into the trap of pretensions. When you do this, chances are the other person will reciprocate. Now you will have a better chance of starting a relationship right, one that is built on truth and acceptance.
When you have all these things, you will have a much bigger chance of finding the right relationship partner.